Tag: children

  • My Dad Just Died. Quickly. Here’s What I Said At His Funeral.

    My Dad Just Died. Quickly. Here’s What I Said At His Funeral.

    (My dad, Eric Ruttan, died on Sunday, November 16th. He lived 2 months less two days after being diagnosed with aggressive cancers in several parts of his body. He was 64. His obituary can be accessed here.) From Dad’s memorial service on November 21, 2014: Before I share my thoughts I want to share with…

  • 10 Things To Improve Your (Young) Kids’ Lives Starting Now

    10 Things To Improve Your (Young) Kids’ Lives Starting Now

    This isn’t one of those lists that tells you to start doing a bunch more things so that (a) you have more stuff to do in your busy life, and (b) you feel guilty for being inadequate. In fact, it might result in you doing less and feeling better! 2 years ago my New Year’s Resolution…

  • Talking To Your (Small) Kids About Easter

    Talking To Your (Small) Kids About Easter

    Last year I blogged about this very thing. So here it is again with a few tweaks: How do we teach our children about the empty tomb without belittling it to spring-ish renewal and chocolate sugar highs? I think Easter is trickier than Christmas. Why? Because there’s murder, death and a corpse that starts breathing…

  • 4 Easy Ways to Change the World (with your kids) This Month

    Okay, I admit it. That title promises a lot! But think of it like this: I once heard someone talk about how people think they need to make a big contribution to the world (a “legacy”) in some huge dramatic gesture. Something so head-turning and philanthropic that you get your name on a plaque or…

  • Helping Our Kids Have Faith

    Will our kids believe? Do they?  This is a big question.  Even before I had kids I was reading about our own homes being mission fields, especially in an age of scepticism. Faith is vital.  Many of us are passionate about cultivating faith in our children, especially in a faith-phobic time.  According to studies, religious experience/education…

  • How Do You Talk To Your Kids About Easter?

    I was chatting with a parent this week. She wanted to be thoughtful and faithful about it.  Yes, the Easter bunny is around.  But how do we go deeper?  How do we teach our children about this founding event of the empty tomb without belittling it with just chocolate and sugar highs? Christmas is easier.  It’s…