Tag: relationships

  • Pornography (Don’t read this if you want to stay in the dark)

    Pornography (Don’t read this if you want to stay in the dark)

    I should warn you that this blog speaks of serious, difficult, and sex-related things. But I felt strongly I should write it. Why? Because the changing nature, higher addiction rates, and increase in the social-acceptability of “porn” is one of the epic problems facing our society today. I’m concerned about what’s happening and want to help people…

  • Why I Don’t Think You Have a “Soul Mate”

    Why I Don’t Think You Have a “Soul Mate”

    It’s a strong idea: Each of us has a mate out there—a perfect mate. A match-made-in-heaven. A “soul mate.” Most people think of their “soul” as the essential, non-visible, real-me part of themselves. So in the soul mate scenario, two of these meant-to-be entities would magically connect, harmonize, and illumine the cosmos around them. Making…

  • If You’re Married, Do This

    If You’re Married, Do This

    Just because you both speak English doesn’t mean you speak the same language. Have you ever overhead a conversation where… Two people were simply on different planes? Each side had the sole purpose of advancing their own agenda? Where there was no attempt to actually listen? Ever done it yourself? Just because you both speak English…

  • What To Do When Someone Judges You For No Good Reason

    What To Do When Someone Judges You For No Good Reason

    Don’t sweat it. They’re not your judge. “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever follows crooked ways will be exposed.” (Proverbs 10:9) Victory is tied not to the lips of men, but tethered securely to the heart of God. End of blog.